"If Christ's charity is not present in people, then even if they live together they are disagreeable, offensive and turbuleny; they upset others by their anxieties and look for gossip about their neighbours. it is like what happend when draught-horses are yoked together and one of them is restless: not only does he not do his share of the pulling but he breaks up the cart with his hooves. Plenty of brothers are like that. They live together but only in the physical sense". (En Ps 132, 12)